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Discover The Secrets of
How To Attract a Man
by Robert Jones
Why do some women instictly know How to
attract a man and some women do not? I will
discuss on of the keys to finding your soul
mate in this article.
Remember when your second or third grade
teacher were always telling you to pay attention?
What that means today is practicing awareness...awareness
of what you are thinking and feeling
Engaging your awareness of your internal
world and then marrying that with an enhanced
ability to sense the internal world of the
guy you are dating, tells you if he or she
is the ONE!
That is How to attract a man.
Here's the deal
Here is an amazing concept. When you practice
being mindful, paying attention, your ability
to sense the internal world of others increases.
Your ability to perceive nonverbal emotional
signals from dates is also enhanced. In
addition, what you are experiencing in your
own internal world is more in your conscious
awareness.
If I only loved him more... Have you ever
said this to yourself?
Have you ever stayed in a relationship even
though it didn't feel 100% right.
Have you stayed even though there was a
nagging doubt in the back of your mind?
Well, I have.
I had that nagging doubt, but I said to
myself 'If I only love him more, it will
be okay.'
You guessed it. I spent a lot of emotional
energy loving him more and more and more,
then after five years, he wanted more -
more than me.
If I would have been truly mindful of myself,
at six months I would have said thanks it's
been fun, but I need to date around.
Instead, I spent five years committed to
a relationship that had no long-term future.
I turned down advances from other men.
I wonder how my life would be different
had I just listened to my first grade teacher
and paid attention to what I was feeling
deep inside and not just on the surface.
He was a good catch. He was cute and a true
outdoors man. He introduced me to a lot
of new adventures - hiking, rock climbing,
caving, and whitewater kayaking.
I was also caught up in my in-the-moment
feelings - he was fun to do things with.
I also thought that if he wasn't my boyfriend,
I wouldn't be able to do those things. What
I was paying attention to was my feelings
of insecurity.
Herein lays the paying attention key for
how to find true love. He and I did those
activities for a few years, but then my
interest turned to different adventures.
My horizon broadened beyond just physical
adventure and challenge. And, as I became
more of who I really was. I decided to go
to graduate school. I started putting my
wants and needs first.
Before long Mr. Adventure found another
playmate
When I had to study, I wasn't the on-demand
playmate anymore. So, he found someone new
to play with.
When I had to study, I wasn't the on-demand
playmate anymore. It was going to happen
sooner or later. Luckily for me, I was exploring
what I wanted for m.
Many women devote years to a man and their
Mr. Adventure leaves them struggling with
the question 'Who am I, if I'm not part
of this relationship?'
The best relationship advice for women
is to pay attention to yourself and how
you feel. Listening to your inner nagging
feelings can save you years of misdirection.
Listening and then respecting, not discounting
your inner feelings is one of the keys of
how to attract a man.
-Colleen Brady-The True Love Coach
Discover The Secrets of How To Attract Mr
Right with Colleen Brady's FREE audio course
"7 Little-Know Keys to The Greatest
Adventure of Your Life - Finding True Love."
goarticles.com,
08.09.2008
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