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Psychology of Dating:
Little-Known Dating Secrets
by Michael Lee
Dating is not just about socialization.
Believe it or not, there is a science behind
it. Understanding the psychology of dating
can be pretty handy, especially if you don't
want to waste your time on bad blind dates.
If you're a dating expert, then you probably
know what indicators to look for. However,
if you find yourself striking out date after
date after date, then you're going to love
reading about the psychology of dating.
Eye Contact
It's all about the eye contact. When you're
in a bar, try to be more observant of the
person you're trying to attract.
If one of them initiates eye contact with
you, smiles and then looks down, then that
individual is definitely interested.
However, if he or she looks at you and then
turns away while their head is still at
normal level, basic psychology of dating
is saying you have very little or no chance,
and he or she is looking for a better offer.
This method will allow you to know who is
most willing to go out on a date with you.
Body Language
Around 60% to 75% of communication is non-verbal,
so your action speaks volumes about you.
And sometimes, it doesn't even matter if
you have very few things to say, as long
as you're able to convey the right gestures
and body movements.
If you're nervous, your body will give you
away. For example, you might experience
trembling of hands or find yourself unable
to smile genuinely.
If you're confident, your body will surely
let the other person know too. According
to the psychology of dating, your voice
will probably be the first to give you away.
So use this to your advantage and try becoming
more conscious of the signals you send to
your partner. Or you can be more observant
of their body language.
These are just some components of the psychology
of dating. Try to evaluate yourself and
see where you stand. Maybe next time, you
can use your knowledge of dating and avoid
the constant hit and miss strategies many
people use.
Goarticles.com,
29.09.2008
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